HI, Therapy is sometimes as difficult on our relatives and friends as it is for us. They have to grow alongside us as we change but they have do it without the support that we have.

Keep trying to talk to your husband as much as possibe. With time your confidence will grow.

I can't comment anymore then this as no one knows for sure just how your husband is feeling except him.

I know at times with my own guilt of time and money that therapy takes up I have projected this onto my husband and when I've asked him outright if he feels what I think he is thinking, he has said that he doesnt deny me anytihng that I feel I have to do.

I think at that time that was as much as he could give and that was enought.