remember that anger is a secondary emotion. we feel something we don't know how to deal with so we get angry in response to it. I think you were disappointed in your boyfriend for signing up for all the holidays and your response was to be angry, not knowing how to express the disappointment. so then what is the original feeling behind your response of him being mad at you? learn how to deal with those original feelings and you wont have the anger to deal with. take care.