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Old Mar 27, 2014, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by skies View Post
Amelia-you are always questioning yourself!

Just be yourself. People will either have to decide to accept you with your flaws/perceived flaws, or put you on ignore and avoid your threads.

Experiencing dependency in the therapeutic relationship will help structure or solidify a strong/er sense of self, where you (anyone) can be free to be yourself without constantly checking, questioning, worrying, changing to appease others, etc.

(I know I'm being a smart $#%, but I couldn't resist)
Haha That made me laugh! Perhaps you are right - perhaps I need to experience dependency in my therapy!! Oh I hope not! That would completely mess with my world view
But in all seriousness: YES you are right - since I came to this forum I have started questioning myself more than before. You know, I am glad you pointed that out! I am usually not that insecure, so why here? Guess I should just keep being my smart $#% self and do what I can to be supportive. Thanks!
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