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Originally Posted by swheaton
In trying to read this, I am thinking that you invested way too much of yourself. Is she getting laid off? I guess I'm confused. All I can see is that someone is trying to use any weakness you might have to make themselves feel better.
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Yes she is getting laid off. The company we work for is "shutting down" (well really its more of a split between the owners, each going their own way) and I was approached by two of the owners to stay with one of them, but she is being let go completely. And she blames me for it.
For a time now (obviously) I felt something weird between us and I started to regret ever caring so much about her. Like I cared too much, and now I realize I wasn't wrong feeling that way. I wanted to believe in her, but all week she has been totally insufferable. She is being the rudest person ever and there is absolutely no cordiality. Its driving me to the brink of wanting to be nasty towards her too, but I am going to be the bigger person and not stoop to her level. She is making it really hard though.