I totally agree with seeker. Listen to her and support her. Being a teenager myself, I know all too well what it's like to be growing up in society today, so it isnt too much of a surprise to see others who are going through the same hardships. I have picked up some of my behaviors from my mother. We're both anxious perfectionists. I'm not sure if your daughter got it from you, but even if she did, don't worry about that, but worry about her well being and about how she's doing in life.