I've experienced this, not much anymore though. It drove me to complete madness because it was constant. However, what I learnt is to remove myself from the situation. I walk away when she starts. She keeps going even when I'm gone but I just don't care.
Sometimes, standing up for yourself works too. I mean like, don't just say stop, tell her the truth. Theres no need to be rude but just be brutally honest. But the fact is, siblings are always difficult. Some more than others but just remember, they\re still family.