Ok heres my story, my other half doesn't and has never given me much affection, I knew he was like that from the star. But after 7 years of barley being told that he even loves you takes its toll. Because of this feeling. I have became more and more jealous of him speaking to other fields, I stopped him talking to an ex, which he said was the love of his life and he was txting behind my back
The only reason I found out I'd because I checked his phone and caught him twice. Which triggered the trust issue. I have sipped him being in bangs with women as I think why should he spend his spare time with other women and not the one he supposed to love. And recently on Xbox live a girl he talks to split up with her partner, and she is talking to him every night without fail. She sent him a pm with kisses on it, which I flipped out about it. And for the past two months I have developed this inane jealousy every time he talks to her. I mean it gets to the point where u am shaking with rage, I am aggressive and shout a lot. I am trying to tell him how I feel and all I get is sort your own stuff out. He doesn't care and is at the point of leaving. I am finding it hard to trust him. He secretly records arguments we have to use against me if we split up and I cause problems for him. I'm so lost and confused. I don't even know how to talk to him anymore and I am really struggling shutting my brain off from the crazy :-(