Thanks all for your replies. So far the cover is still sealed, but he called today while my husband was at work. I told him straight up that I was ending this and that there was not even a little bit of a possibility that we would ever be together again. I also mentioned the toll that our communicating has caused on my life here, and it does not phase him. He kept repeating, "I will have you", "I'm not going to go away that easily", "I won
t just give up that easily"...stuff like that. Kind of creepy really.

He then got crazy when I continued standing my ground and accused me of talking to other men....I was like I already have a man at home..isn't that enough!

Anyway, I didn't feel the need to explain myself to him and I didn't. I just pleaded for him to respect my decision and so far he refuses. I'm trying to keep this civilized..yet not nice. Maybe I can persuade him to move on. Maybe he'll meet a girl tonight..(crossing fingers).

Saddest part of this entire situation is I will miss him when he's gone, I find that pathetic.