My siblings moving on with their own families would be fine with me, but my siblings choice of spouses seems to indicate that they're purposely trying to make me jealous. Any of my childhood career ambitions are now replaced by their spouses as though they were trying to outdo me with their spouses. Essentially, the siblings are like Pokemon trainers and their spouses and children are the Pokemon, but I don't have a spouse of my own, so I don't have any Pokemon to send against them.