Hi. Does anyone here have a partner that thinks it's all about you in the relationship? I tend to talk about things from AA or therapy & meds. So maybe it's my fault, but I do listen to all my husband's stuff about work or sports (boring). I'm on ssdi so it's not like I can exactly talk about my day in a working sense. My husband tells me he just goes day by day with me and my moods. He also throws around bs from years ago like my manic spending. I don't know it's just hard when I just got sober a year ago yet he still gets drunk sometimes. He also is European and in his area they didn't have shrinks. I just got out of the hospital, but came home thinking I was a burden and an inattentive wife. He just doesn't get me so I feel like I have to use a filter and act "normal" whatever the hello that entails.
Tnt
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