Sounds like the two of you have a great connection. I would find it distracting, maybe in a good way I'm not sure. I get the obsessing thing. I'd just die if I heard my ex-T's voice ever again and look up to see him standing there. I'd melt and cry and just die. I don't know if I could really handle seeing him again...
I definitely couldn't handle him holding me while I cried. It would be way too close. I'd never ever get enough of it.