I'm not sure what he is thinking and I'm not sure I'm communicating with him effectively enough. Does anyone have any good resources for what I could do better to explain that I am stressed out about him not having a job and doesn't appear to be looking for one? He spends A LOT of time building websites and learning how to do that to eventually make money but he isn't terribly proactive with bringing money in. I am trying to be supportive of his artistic side but I feel like I've had enough. WE have 3 kids who are 12,11, and 2. I am working at a job I DESPISE because he can't (or won't) find a job. I'm so frustrated by this. He is a good man. I'm just over it. please advise.