{{{{{{{{Des}}}}}}}}}}} Since I weighed in on the issues when you first posted about it, I feel I need to weigh in here, too. You've gotten some pretty good advise. Listen and follow through.

First, tell hubby what is going on. Like someone said, you don't have to give hubby every detail. If this creep calls again when hubby is home, let hubby answer the phone (if you have caller ID). If not, pass the phone to hubby without saying a word to the creep.

Once before, I advised you to NOT tell hubby but he's come through for you in a positive way. Have faith in his love for you and let him be your ally.

Do like people have suggested and don't allow him to contact you through Myspace. You can have your phone # changed at no cost if you are being harrased.

Finally... and I hope I don't hurt your feelings, Hon, this isn't the first time you've been in a similar situation. If I were you, I'd look at my own behavior to see what it is I'm doing to cause these things to happen.

You're a beautiful woman and you're full of life. No doubt, that's one of the first things that men look at, but there's a look a woman gets about her when she's unapproachable "in that way." You may have to work on that.

On the same thread, I can relate to you and how you feel about this type of excitement. I often felt that way when I was married to my first husband. Maybe you can find something to do to spice up your married life... or... find a group of SAFE friends that will allow you to expend that extra youthful energy you have. You're entitled to your youth!

Take care of YOU.