Your T reminds me of my main T. Our connection is intense, I will sometimes get hugs, yet he has been clear that this has to stay safe and professional. I've known him 20 years but on occasion I feel a boundary crossing--not a violation as far as I can tell-- here and there.

We had one or two sessions in a local resteraunt over a vast amount of time, but that felt vaguely inappropriate. No matter how much you love someone and you feel they love you it is important not to ignore your own inner voice.

In my case, I feel he is overall very ethical but he probably has feelings for me too on some level. We both can keep things in check.