Hi everyone
Right now I am having a just a couple of issues with my boyfriend. I only get to see him twice a week and he lives quite far away. Most of the time, I am the one talking, I try to ask open ended questions, get him to talk about his day etc. but all I usually get is a general "good", "nothing" or "I don't know". I have tried asking open ended questions etc. but he just was not giving much up. Finally I talked with him about it and he opened himself up more than he ever has, needless to say I was incredibly happy. After the issue had been solved however I kept having off feelings about it which is weird because usually I am pretty patient when it comes to these things, then after thinking about it for a bit I realized I was having personal issues that were conflicting me. I guess the truth is is that I have the feeling of never feeling close enough to someone. That and I guess I just don't feel like a big part in his life and that bugs me, although I should be able to get past it, :/ I think too much. I love him so much and really don't want this to get in the way. Is there anything I can do to deal with these problems?
Thanks!(I know this is really long, sorry! this is my first post)
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