I think your situation effects more people then you would know. Personally I know that it is sooo hard for me sometimes to listen to my boyfriend complain about his day of work. When I am feeling like my life is falling apart I do not want to hear about how he did not get a lunch break.
Unfortunately I do not have any advice for you really. I just wanted to let you know that my thoughts are with you. I agree with what other people have said about different people have different tolerances for anger.
Have you talked to your T about this? Maybe he/she could suggest some techniques to help you through those moments.

Stay strong,
Jessica

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