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Originally Posted by mulan
Good! That seems very a very hard time!
I'm so sorry that you have been going through all of this. It seems that your mother clearly don't understand depression. I would say to you to talk to her oppenly about how do you really feel, but it looks like it would make things worse. Being in that envirement is certainly not a good thing.
Have you got any help? Can you tell your director that you can't trust your mum, that she is this hard on you, for him to avoid tell her more of these things? There is any conselour in your collegue that you can reach for help?
Don't know if any of this helps. But everything you told looks pretty awful! I imagine myself in your situation, and I would certainly want to run away from home! (I'm not saying this is a path).
You have done anything wrong, it's not your fault.
Hughs for you.  |
Thank you.
I have tried to talk to her openly about it, but whenever I try (in a calm way, I must stress) she doesn't listen, shouts over the top of me, always saying how bad it is affecting
her and how she doesn't need this right now and that I'm making it all up and I should go and see a professional (she throws that in my face because her 'friend' told her I wouldn't get help because I was lying and I knew I'd be found out if I lied to a professional - none of which is true, I am not lying, and I'm seeing a professional on Wednesday).
I am also seeing a counsellor on Tuesday, and my director of studies already knows about what's going on at home.
Thank you for your reply.