Hi, it's also been a week since my gf of 3 years chose to leave me.
I loved her so much, cared for her and helped her in so many ways. I knew it was a tough relationship between us as she doesn't find me attractive enough but I still hoped and thought it will work out.
I am a professional with a stable job earning good salary and I loved her the best I could for the entire 3 years. I was always the first to say Sorry, I forgave her faults and infidelities and ignored her lies.
We just came back from a holiday and I noticed that she was quite close to an online boyfriend for the past 3 months from another country, she said its nothing to worry about and she said I was just being stupid when I got sad when I heard her say she loves him online.
After a few days of this, I told her to choose between this online guy and me and to my shock she said sorry for hurting me but she cannot let him go.
That's that and now she says we should move on with our lives and be friends.
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