No matter what, always say what's on your mind in every situation and aspect of life. Never let a thought, concern, question or feeling stay floating and spinning around in your head for long periods of time, this is the worse thing you can do to your self. You need to attend to your heart, if your heart says, say something and talk to him, ask him to have a coffee, maybe go for a short walk around the block, or grab a bite to eat, what ever your feelings and emotions are expressing to you, do not ignore this inner guidance provided by your intuition, heart and emotions. Do not just leave all of your thoughts, questions and concerns with relationships and life its self all cluttered and packed into your head, weather it be pertaining to work, family, friends or a future lover, you need to pay close attention and listen to your gut feelings/intuition, emotion and heart at all times of the day, and attend to what your heart is expressing. If you think your going crazy in your head right now, well, if you dont act on these urges and feelings while they are fresh or accept what can't be and move on, you may very well find your self actually suffering from a serious case of depression, without even knowing why and how this is possible. Your head and heart will not stop twisting, spinning, aching, throbbing, and reacting to the neglect you have expressed to your mind, body and soul, until you have personally taken the time to address all the thoughts concerns and questions you are keeping locked inside your very nervous mind, all because of what? Fear of the unknown, fear of rejection, fear of non acceptance... By acting on your feelings, by expressing in conversation(word-to-mouth) your intentions emotions and dreams, and allowing your self to put the fear of experiencing the feelings and emotions of fear and rejection itself, you will shortly find your self proving to your self that not only was the act of expressing your deep inner emotions out loud to the subject of concern quite easy to accomplish, you will also feel oh sooo much more relaxed and content with finally getting these urges and thoughts off your chest. As a bonus, you will also find that you have as well, increased your self confidence, and added more personality and characteristics to your personal arsenal, as you have accomplished staying true to your self by listening and following your heart and facing your most current fears.

9-10 times, you don't need advice from anyone other then your heart. Stay true to your emotions and you will stay true to who you truly are inside!

Hope this advice helps you with your current dilemma and future situations to come your way.