I am being told that someone is faking a friendship. The person they are accusing has the tendency to only invite me to hang out every so often and usually it is only to accompany her to the cafeteria but usually she prefers to eat by herself in the cafeteria. The reason I wonder is because in the beginning of the school year, she showed definite signs that she did not like me at all by the way she looked at me and acted towards me, but now she seems perfectly fine. She also has the tendency to ignore me in group situations but that happens the most when her boyfriend is around which is understandable. The other person on the hand, exhibits behavior that is not much better, maybe even worse. This other person has the tendency to purposely leave me out of group activities and exclude me, she does ask me to hang out with her but that's only if it is one-on-one which is rare and when she gets mad she talks bad about the person or people she's mad at but then when she is happy again she acts like she is best friends with them again and acts like she never said any of those rude things. She also tends to ignore me in group settings as well no matter what and she doesn't even have a boyfriend. I do feel like the person who told me this info is wrong but I just wanted to get feedback just in case since the original person mentioned exhibited not so friendly behavior in the very beginning. Would you consider the first person I mentioned a friend or just an acquaintance?
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