OMG! I believe my sister has BPD and forever it seems. This article helps me to better understand her and what it feels like for her. That is an overstatement, because I understand her so little because she hasn't accepted her role as a person living with BPD. I just started talking to her about BPD, and she reacts volatile as usual, but I'm hoping that my honesty will help her in the long run. She is an on/off type of person where all she sees is herself being acted upon, atleast this is my description of it, and she takes no responsibility for her roles, which is frustrating for both me and our family in general. I wish I could help her more, but with her being resistance to change and not being able to trust or accept love in general is an uphill battle. I try to be honest while reinforcing my affection for her but do end up, at times, being caught up in her whirlwind. Is there something more I can do as a sister? She attacks me for saying things that I believe are "normal" like your behavior is over the top, etc." She's exhausting, always pushing and pulling.

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