Thanks Echoes. But what if I am to much for him? I certainly could not start this process over. Everything is such a mess. The reason I started seeing him for has been put on hold as there is to much currently going on that needs to be addressed. I have been seeing him for nearly a year and the mess is so much worse. I have way to many crisis'. Also - I am not sure what is alright. How much is supposed to help me with. Some of this stuff I should be able to do. I am so lost. I don't know what to expect of T and I am so afraid that one day he is going to say enough. I mean I can't handle it anymore.