Cally it sounds like you are in the grips of an intense infatuation which is fine, that is how we realize we are attracted to someone. You must keep in mind that this is totally an inner experience, you think you may love this person but in reality you do not know him. People that have issues with anxiety and depression often come the conclusion that every thing good in the world can be found outside themselves and I feel that this sets up for these intense crushes in which we idealize another person. I agree with the others that have suggested that you ask him out for coffee but please keep in mind that you cannot reveal the extent of your feelings without likely scaring him off. The reason for this is that right now your feelings have very little to do with him because you don't know him well enough yet. I hope it works out for you and I wish you all the best.
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