Oh my gosh, Sammy, I wish I could meet more men like you! I am COMPLETELY the same way- I'm not the type of gal to have a one night stand, that's for sure. I'm so glad to hear someone else have the same viewpoints, because so many people have been driven away by the fact that I need emotional connection before I can do the physical thing. It is NOT unfair of you to make them wait. Don't waste your time with anyone who gives you grief for it.

Plus, STDs are scary, and casual sex really increases your chances of that.