things like what you mentioned don't get worked out on their own. Actually you know they don't because they haven't, right?

I'm not saying that marriage counseling will, but what going to marriage counseling will do for you, is givie you the sence that, you did everything you could to work things out.

My h and I did marriage enrichment, counseling, support group, and we are still going to break up, so, when it is not workable, it isn't. but I feel a whole lot better because I know we tried everything we could to "save it".

gab