Shakes is absolutelly right, I don't know how long it's been for you. Mine happened 6 years ago.

Every person takes different time to heal. I'd say mine took about 6 to be able to move on (not totally heal). And I do believe how far in the pregancy the miscarriage happens the more it hurts. I almost lost my third child during my 8th month, and I know that would have hurt a whole lot more, and I mean a whole lot more than the one I lost during the first trimester.

Any way, be kind to yourself.

gab