I'm so sorry, for your loss
I think I met her briefly a couple of times on another site, it's my loss I didn't take the time and energy to get to know her better. I didn't know or remember that she was here too, if the same person.
The toonkate I met used to quote-

"Death is not the greatest loss in life, the greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live."

I tended to agree, but when it's over, especially so young, it's a close call