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Old Apr 01, 2014, 07:13 AM
WonkyWonka WonkyWonka is offline
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Member Since: Mar 2014
Location: Brazil - San Palo
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Thanks for all the answers, I considered every single one (except for Tiger Dust's one), I also wanted to say that you guys are doing a really good thing helpin someone you doesn't even know. I really appreciate it.

I can give you more information about her or me, it' wouldn't be a problem at all if it will help to help me out.

Yesterday I met her again, we were 85% normal, so the awkwardness was really almost gone. She didn't rush to mention Saturdays's situation so I felt relieved, after a hour of talking she asked me if I had something to else to say about that day, I wasn't so into talking about that and made it short, I told her I just needed some time to diggest what she told me on that day, and that I was ok now. She thinks that there was no motive for me to act like that. I hadn't read all the comments till now so I was still not sure about what was the right thing to tell her.

I don't know if her past will affect me at all, considering the possibilities that was been given by all of you. In order to get our relationship back on te trails i was putting on my mind that her past doesn't affect me because we are living the right now. But your posts are really making me think... Was it a red flag? One information that is worth being given is that on her previous relationship, the one she cheated, it was because their relation were really bad, and she told me that her ex assumed it was 80% his fault, she didn't disagree about that. Will it mean that if she cheats on me it will be expected to be my fault to her? I may be wrong, but that was what came to mind. The worst feeling I've ever had was to be cheated so I think I'm scared it will happen again, maybe I'm too attached to this idea but I can't be sure. I have the tendency to assume everything was my fault when I could have done something.

Also seeing her in better mood did really good to me, I feel no anguish now, I was doubtful whether it would still be good still with her or not, but seeing her again in better mood and trying to overcome it as well made my day better.

I'm having tests now, I work and study so I'm tight on time. I need to read all your comments again.

We are both 22.

Thanks for all your kindness, understanding and helpful information again.

If you guys could comment on that too it would be really great for me.