So I opened the door for talk on the hard stuff. I gave T a 4pg letter of the past told her didn't want to talk about it and burn it when done. Needless to say she didn't burn it and wants to talk about it. I told her last week it was irrational and illogical for me to say not talk about it.

I can't just expect her to accept that, it's the reality of the situation and her job to get into it. I told her ask away, I don't lie. Then the only thing she wants to talk about was the one good thing I had in it. So I think I should assume next visit is going to start the rest. Right?

Sorry off topic but chuckling. This dude keeps trying to start his car that keeps dying. He's either a) out of gas b) too much gap in spark plugs or c) battery too weak.