((((( sb )))))

I can so relate to how you are feeling about face to face talks. I've always found that writing out my feelings helps me to put things into prospective so that either 1. I can give what I've written to the individual or 2. I feel more confident in speaking to them about what's going on in my head and heart.

Could it be possible that this individual is not impressed with the drinking aspect of things? Could that be the part that he is hung up on and not impressed with? If so, it's an easy fix!

My other thought is this. Not everyone that we have romantic feelings for will reciprocate those feelings. It is hard to be turned down or turned away at those times. But, I have to say that if he is truly not "into" you, then I give him credit for telling you how he feels up front and not stringing you along.

I wish you well....I hope things work out for the best and that you can find some peace of mind over this soon!

Hugsssssss
J