Don't expect it to be easy to get over someone you actually loved. That just is not something that happens quickly or effortlessly. Accept that it's going to hurt for awhile no matter what they did to mess things up and find ways to cope with the fact that there will be pain in your life for a bit. As others have said, it's going to take time... it does get better, I promise you. Been there enough times, and life does get better after break ups