No, I don't think it's normal for a T to make remarks about her body, especially sexual parts, like your T did. I'm not sure what it means, but I doubt most Ts would say those kinds of things.

The only case I can think of, is if you talked like that, and she was talking in your language, but you said that's not true.

Maybe she had an unusual upbringing where talk like that was the norm? I can't imagine that, though. Ts are usually careful about not talking about sex unless you bring it up. I do remember my T asking a general question about sex early in my therapy, but that's all.

If I were you, I'd tell her that you're uncomfortable with the way she talks about sex in your sessions, and tell her what you posted. I can see that may be embarrassing; maybe you can write it down and give it to her.

Does she seem "normal" in other ways, or does she talk about herself and her experiences often?

I'm sorry you're so agitated, but I think that's because your T's choice of words is troubling. I'll be a pocket rider for your session if you'd like.