Just an update ..... my daughter has seen the light and her "friend" in her opinion is no longer involved in her life. Things hit a real crisis as she was so confused. I took the stance that if this is the life she wants then we will support her but I would not have him in our home until after a long time when he proves his love for her and that he truly loves her for her. Afterwards,my initial posts, they spent an afternoon talking about their priorities (in between him falling asleep multiple times). He kept telling her she couldn't dump him "as he had no place to go." He just started a new job and she told him he needed to take the time, go home, save some money and then think about getting his own place, that they could be friends and potentially continue to date. He told her that his new job (second job as a bouncer at a strip club) was his fun money and he didn't need to worry about the bills. He informed her that he could and would spend the money the way he wanted to like getting a full back tattoo. That was all he had to do as she knew that his priorities would never change and that he really didn't care about her and her values. He has become friends with all the strippers, is going drinking at all times of the day with this crowd, one that she does not want to get involved with. He really hung himself with her when he took off after their chat and sent nasty texts to me about her. He keeps trying to contact her and has said some nasty things about her and then will tell her he misses her, the dog and the apartment. I guess, time will tell what will truly happen with him but for the time she believes that she is much better off without him. Just pray that she finds her true sole mate and she finds happiness as that is all I want for her. Thank you again, for all your advice and prayers.