I'm trying to think why she would do that and I keep coming up blank. The whole "emotional equivalent of waxing my vagina" comment sounds like something a comedian might say. Or maybe a friend after a couple of drinks. It's not that comment itself is so out there but that it strikes me as totally inappropriate for therapy. But trying to guess what someone calls you in bed just crosses every kind of line for me.

I think it's okay for a therapist to ask about sex but there needs to be a reason for it. And I think that reason should be immediately apparent and relevant to what you've been talking about. It doesn't sound like her reasons were totally clear to you.

Is she trying to provoke you? Is she trying to be all down with how the kidz are talking these days and bridging the generation gap? Is she just wacky and lacking a filter between her brain and her mouth? It would make me uncomfortable.