Yeah i think i left a comment on your original message. Sometimes life sucks doesn't it and you were unlucky. You picked a bad 'un. All you can do now is pick up the pieces and in time draw a line under it and put it down to experience. We all take a chance with relationships. Sometimes you hit lucky sometimes not. You drew the short straw. But you sound upbeat, your BPD is stable, you have your kids and things will get better i'm sure. L
ve and Peace. xx