Whoa those are some pretty explicit remarks! However I don't necessarily think a hasty assumption should be made about the meaning behind these remarks. I agree that she may have been attempting to match your level of speaking in order to make you feel more comfortable in disclosing certain issues. Perhaps she is being blunt with you because she suspects you are holding something back or uncomfortable with saying something?

Do you feel horrified at the thought of bringing this up with her? It might be the best thing to do...Just so you don't drive yourself crazy with the unknown, because that is never a good feeling!