I have a few questions. First, am I understanding this correctly that you are dating a married man? I am not judging you at all, just making sure I understand the situation correctly. How do YOU know that his wife is soon to be an ex-wife? What evidence do you have of this? I know lots of people going through divorces right now and very few of them want to reside together. BUT I can understand the financial part, it is not easy to pay to live on your own. So if he were to live with you, would you charge him rent? I mean if he wanted to get out of his house and separate from his wife, could he live with you for free? I am just trying to understand why he is still living with a woman he says he doesn't love when he could be living with you. How do you know they sleep in separate rooms? Does his wife know about you? I honestly think that if he is not divorced or even physically separated from his current wife, than you can't really be fully committed on your end either. I don't know, maybe I am wrong, but it seems like it would be very difficult to give all of yourself to someone with marital commitments. I think you are right to not feel entirely safe and trusting in him.