We all develop wants and desires as we grow. It doesn't make us any less grateful for what we have been given as children.

Part of growing is learning that we don't have to accept the status quo if we don't want to. We have the right to pursue happiness, whatever form that happiness takes.

I always look at life as if I were on my deathbed.....How will I feel about this? Will I regret doing/not doing it?
And that helps me make good decisions.