Can I share my personal experience with you? My termination with a previous T was very difficult. After we were finished, there was some stuff that was left hanging that should have been dealt with before we finished and I know now, that it was his responsibility to help me with this before we were finished.

There was no way to "fix" anything though. He was finished. I spent months agonizing over how things finished. I just wanted to fix the issue that left me so upset. I spent months being upset about it. I talked to my new therapist about it. He couldn't do anything other than listen and acknowledge that there had been mistakes on my T's behalf.

I never got to fix things, but I found a way to move forward. Endings are often like this - imperfect. You need to try and find a way through it to keep living. Don't let this other person stop you from becoming who you really are and keep you from living the fullest life possible.