Thanks for replying Hazelgirl, only I'm not sure how helpful it is to me to be asked whether I'm borderline .

My issue is feeling angry at T per se and I was hoping to hear if other people experience something similar and if so how they dealt with it.

I'm well aware that there's probably a large element of transference involved, but I don't think that negates what I feel - I'm struggling at the moment with continuing in therapy when it seems so pointlessly negative to me all the time, but I suspect it would probably be ultimately healing for me to stick with it, stick with the anger and work through it.

Only I'm not sure, so would like other people's experiences to think about.