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Originally Posted by shabur
Its great that you have a career that is fulfilling.
Did your client say why they are backing out? Was their reasoning for this change acceptable if you were in a better mood? Are you able to talk to them about the situation?
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The client is unaware of our financial hardships. They may think it's no big deal. Money is only part of it. This client handled things poorly. I'm still not sure how I will handle it when I talk with them. Had a couple other individuals let me down today as well. I handle things differently. I am very honest - yet respectful if I have to tell some one bad news - I do not ignore it becasue it might be too hard to tell someone bad news. I'm always surprised others do not handle themselves in that manner yet I've had enough of these experiences to know better by now. Thanks for writing to me. One of my hopes while I'm getting support is continue to improve my reactions. If I can get my thoughts out in writing - I believe it will help me blow off some steam. Hope you are well today.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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