It's nice to see you here again, tigergirl. Yes! I thought of that about not being in charge at the end of writing my last post. It seems like a lot of times in my life someone else is in control, not me. This is definitely something to bring up next week. It's about not liking change, too.

My T doesn't have too many boundaries. I'm glad she decided to make one about emailing. It's NOT painful because it was MORE painful when I would write my feelings or reactions and she would ignore them. In the beginning of therapy, she would answer my emails in detail, "between my lines", as I called it. But that became too much for her, and she started answering very briefly. She said she didn't want to be a T via email. I don't expect her to answer so it's not a problem.