Thanks for reading, I know it was really long. Here's the latest- he just called and we were talking. I asked him where the therapists number was and I said I thought that we should call and get information and set up a session very soon so we could both get a feel for if it would work or not. He mentioned his finances and how he didn't think he could pay for it if insurance didn't cover it. For some reason ( and he's blaming it on the lawyers fees), he doesn't have any money and can't afford to split the cost. He started yelling about how he couldn't pay his bills and I told him I thought the counseling should be a priority for both of us. He kept yelling that he didn't have the money. I tried to say again that we needed to find out if insurance would cover it. He kept yelling, I told him that him not having any money was his problem and he said," yeah it is, goodbye." and hung up on me. What did I do wrong this time-I just don't get it.