In response to sabau's post-

I've kind of wondered if the alcohol thing may have played into his initial reaction, and I think that's why I'm still feeling like there's things I want/need to say.

I realize that not everyone that I have romantic feelings for will reciprocate them, and think that's part of why I don't know if I should say something again or just let it drop.

I've written down what I want to say plenty of times. I feel that this time, I need to say things face to face. Partly for myself, to show myself that i CAN do it, and partly because I feel that it's the "right" way to do it, instead of in an email or a letter or a phone call.

Thanks for your kind words.

And in response to chiz's post-
Yeah, he told me that, regardless of the circumstances, I spoke my mind and should be proud that I did that. Somehow that didn't help any. I would say if you're going to do something, do it in person, and not while under the influence of anything. But look at it this way- the worst thing that happens is he says he's not interested. Best case scenario, you get the guy.