Settling for someone like this, wastes years of peoples lives.

One thing, I observe that can be addressed in therapy, is the use of a judging word, as in 'have BAD anti-social problems.' The other is the use of the word NEVER, as in "NEVER find anyone else."

If speaking to the therapist is too hard, as far as, expressing what's going on in your relationship, asking to delve into those two areas might be beneficial.

No need to make any decisions, about her, until you reach a place in your heart that is one of clarity.