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Old Apr 02, 2014, 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Nanodown View Post
I was happy when I filed but now it has been 18 months and he has dragged the divorce on and on. I am depressed now. I also switched jobs and do not like the new job. Basically, i HOPE to feel tremendous happiness and relief when we are finally divorced but worry that I will not. He is a controlling abuser who is using the legal system and the divorce to continue to punish me for leaving him. Do you think I will feel happier when it is finally over?
Did you know, that this use of the judicial system is noted in the ABA's(American Bar Association) judges guide to child custody law, as textbook of domestic abuse???

I bet you'll feel relief, to not be walking on broken glass around him, once final.