Been with her nearly two years. Then she breaks up with me, and is very mean and showed no compassion. She told me she was the non-committing type when we met. Yet, she fell in love with me, and wanted to commit to me. I felt the same for her. So we both proceeded, and had a great time. Now she wants to date me, and just keep it "fun and light", because she loves me - she just does not want to responsibility and accountability to me. I know she loves me, and cares about me, but it is tearing me apart trying to step back to casual dating, when her and I shared a life together. So, when she calls, and wants to see me, I come running. Yet, I feel like a toy to be placed in and out of the closet at will. I don't know if this is her way of working it out, or just keeping me around for when she is lonely. I don't know what to do.