Well I feel like you are awfully busy and it is hard when you are that busy to also "keep house". Don't get me wrong I also find it very important to try and do our bests and compromise with our partners. You however are doing TONS!!! It is important for us to be supportive of our partners, but that HAS to go both ways and from how it sounds, it is not. He HAS to be supportive of you too. It is not fair of him to lay all of the blame on you. Remember you are important and you deserve to be valued, not only by him but by yourself! On a side note, if your side business is something you are passionate about, you to deserve the opportunity to try and make it work! I find that when I am not passionate about things it makes it much harder to try and give my all. Best wishes and remember that you are an awesome person that deserves to be treasured!