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Originally Posted by owlpride
I used to volunteer at a crisis line. We were trained not to ask "why" questions because it puts some people on the defensive. Asking "why did you do...?" in social conversation often communicates disapproval, implying that the person made a bad decision.
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Hmm to be honest, I think when I asked myself the question, I was being somewhat accusatory. "Why would that make you uncomfortable? It shouldn't make you uncomfortable. What's wrong with you?" I didn't have LCM say all of that but it kinda feels somewhat implied based on the context that I'm annoyingly not sharing and my initial feelings about it