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Originally Posted by Asiablue
And how do you intend to get that if you don't give your new T the chance to?
Unless you are prepared to drop the defenses just enough to allow a T to work with you, then you are spending an awful lot of money and time for what?
It's not easy, i know that. But right now you are creating an impasse where your new T can't maneuver in a way that will help you or create trust.
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Okay, Asia. So do you suggest that when I see her tomorrow, I tell her all about the stuff my mother put me through when I was living with her, mention how abandoned I felt when she kicked me out, explain how the same thing feels like it's happening with old T, mentor figure, all the other changes going on in my life right now, etc., tell her how hurt I felt about the situation with mentor figure, and describe my ambivalence about leaving old T even though I know it's the best thing for me to do, and if we don't have time to get through all of that in one session, ask her for another session the next day or the day after (since she only works Friday-Sunday)? Would that be a normal/good fourth session, you think?